Free Does She Like Me Quiz

Fourteen questions that keep warmth and interest apart. Free, no sign-up, written for adults.

Which of these has happened?

Only answer for what you saw. The last three ask if she is like this with everyone.

  • 14 questions
  • Under 2 minutes
  • No sign-up, no email

Scored on your device, sent nowhere.

What you end up with

How much is aimed at you

Where the signal is

Why it asks what it asks

Three things worth telling apart: who starts contact, whether it is moving, and what she volunteers.

Reading her is measurably harder
Observers watching speed dates predicted men's interest well; their read on women's barely beat chance. Psychological Science, 2009
Why warmth gets discounted
Across three studies men found a responsive stranger more attractive; women did not. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2014
The mistake runs both ways
Women's intent is misjudged in both directions — friendliness read as interest, interest read as friendliness. Psychological Science, 2008

Not a diagnosis or a prediction, and not an assessment of her. Written for adults.

The questions this one gets

She is warm with everybody. Is any of it about me?

That is what the last three ask. Saying yes lowers what everyday warmth counts for; what she started still counts.

She replies fast but never starts anything. What is that?

The most common pattern here. Replying is nearly free; starting is not, and that gap is most of the signal.

We met on a dating app. Does that change what counts?

It lowers what warmth tells you — everyone there opted in. Watch who suggests moving off the app.

About Palaura

Palaura is an AI matchmaker who lives in iMessage. She learns what actually matters to you, then screens real people and makes the introduction herself. Free to start.

Find my person
An iMessage thread where Palaura sends over a match — her photos, a short note on why she fits, and the reply coming back